For my JOMC 223 class we have a project on a topic of interest regarding problems with new technologies and I think my subject will be cellular manners.
Granted the level of courtesy and kindness to others differs per each situation, but on the whole cell phones can make us some of the least thoughtful individuals on the face of the Earth.
Just as a ringing phone takes prececence in the home or at work a ringing cell phone, whether it's singing Sweet Home Alabame or using one of those annoying generic rings, is considered a sign that a person is important and busy.
What's the old saying? A busy bee is a happy bee, but some folks just take it too far for me. Some people actually listen in on other people's conversations on cell phones when they are out in public.
I think that this is horrible invasion of one's privacy, but only to an extent, because the eavesdroppers, as they are, only get half the story so they must fill in the rest with a fantasy dialogue that can take the conversation wherever they desire. People who have to do this sort of thing to get a thrill need to get a life.
Another problem that has arisen from this new technology is that people as a whole are less private than they once were. Granted everyone's doors may have been unlocked at night in 1955 in Smalltown, USA, but their blinds were closed.
We are a far more open society than we were say 50 years ago. In those days people would retreat into phone booths to make even the most routine call, but now they just whip out their cellphones and chat away, whether they are in the bathroom or in the middle of a movie theatre. They just have to answer the call of the cell when it beckons for them. And this need to answer can directly lead to more bad cell manners.
Due to the small nature of these phones many people feel that they are not receiving adequate aural feedback and in turn talk much louder into cellphones than they would a traditional house phone. Bad signals can also add to this problem.
I do not currently own a cell phone, but I did have one for years. The constant dropped calls, going over my pre-set number of minutes and the exorbitant fees that, that entail are all parts of why I no longer use this new technology.
But they can certainly be useful in an emergency, but on the whole I believe them to a be a nuissance of the worst kind.
Whether I am teaching a class or eating in a restaurant, the constant ringing of cell phones is definitely, in my opinion, a form a noise pollution.
So for my sake, if not everyone elses, turn 'em off when you are in a place where it is appropriate to do so, be it church, school or some other quiet atmosphere.